It's really pitiful that somebody try to get your help just for his own comfort.
I mean, when somebody talk to you with all the dramatic possible, about things that aren't a real problem (within the canons socially accepted)... then you feel that this person it's trying to pick you up or something!!
I have no time & energy to help somebody who really didn't need help & the only thing that want its feel himself loved.
Overloved childs grow stupids.